What’s the practice here?
Today, I’m in Naples, Italy with a group of teens on mission…
Jim McGuiggan had on his site a blurb about the practice of the Jews concerning contentious subjects which are not clearly defined by Scripture. When arriving in a new village (say… Naples), the Jew would simply ask the Rabbi: "What’s the practice here?" (about the contentious subject). Then the newcomer would follow the local practice even if s/he didn’t completely agree with the decisions of the local group.
I find there is much value in that. Some might call it chicken. Others might call it giving in to pressure. But you must admit that it eliminates those two dangers mentioned by Paul concerning faith expressions and community: "disdain for those who don’t and judgment against those who do".
February 12th, 2008 at 2:55 pm
In a lot of cases, the path of least resistance would be good. For instance, every 4 years I try not to engage in a lot of political discussions!
However, there would be instances I couldn’t hang with it.
February 12th, 2008 at 3:47 pm
What a novel concept…having respect for the interpretations and traditions of your host. I like that.
February 12th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
I love that! How simple and Christ-like.
Blessings and love to you and your family.
February 12th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
This is a subject that can present itself as a double edge sword. On the one hand this Jewish practice is the best course of action for a visitor to a different home, community, or church.
On the other hand the (as I like to call it) “Romans 14 Card” has been played too many times by Christians claiming to be the “weaker brother.” I’ve always been of the opinion that you can’t be the “weaker brother” if you know what that means.
In addition, those who insist on having their way in church, camp, etc., rarely equate “giving in / turning the other cheek” for a gesture that should foster some movement on their part. Again, it has been my “experince” that such actions by well meaning (that would include yours truly) Christians done in the name of love and harmony, only embolden the “weaker brother” to be stronger and more frequent in playing the “Rom. 14 card.”
February 12th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
Excellent strategy with great wisdom.
February 13th, 2008 at 4:08 am
We’ve been doing that in the church for decades, haven’t we??
February 14th, 2008 at 12:17 am
Why must we always see things from the angles of two extremes? Very polarising, indeed. Tolerance and respect can go a long way.